Shit you didn’t know, work

father and son closeup
My five daily. differently-themed “Mid Life Celebration, LLC” Blogs started as a project for our Son
child with teddy bear at beach
Jack the Bear, Castaway Cay 2011.
Windermere Prep Cross Country
What a person learns through perseverance can pale in comparison to the person watching from the sidelines. Cross Country wasn’t my idea.
handwritten Personal values list
Our instructor, a seasoned attorney, carries a $100 bill and tells people when riding elevators he’ll give it to them if they can share their personal values before the door opens. Scribbled note: Honesty, behave admirably, personal responsibility, self-control, initiative.
child by a disney trash can
One of hundreds of Disney parks trips from home.
family and dog in mini van
2005 road trip to Sanibel…Jack the Bear on Chapin’s lap…
Thank you post card note
Wrote this and tucked it under Chapin’s blanket so he’d see it before falling asleep.
Family by Christmas tree
Chapin’s first Christmas as a college student. Life is a blur. Enjoy that. Having Chapin along for our life-ride has been icing on the cake. So insanely lucky.

Dear Son,

Shit you didn’t know…

How could you?

You were just a kid.

What you didn’t know is…

How being your dad inspired and guided everything i did (and why i did it)…

Told you High School freshman year you had to get involved in some after school activity. Never told you what it needed to be other than it was with a group of others that met daily after school.

You didn’t during first semester. And i didn’t make you.

But i insisted you do it second semester.

Further, i reminded you that you could pick anything you wanted.

And i also revealed that if you didn’t pick, i would pick for you.

And i would pick track and field.

Why?

Not because i wanted you to become a runner.

But because track and field offered many different choices.

You picked Shot Put.

Which i thought was a brilliant choice.

Coach Sharrod Williams talked you into cross-country to start your sophomore year.

Never saw that coming.

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By jeff noel

Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites.